How About A ‘Clark
Kent’ Husband
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| Is He Your Clark Kent Husband? |
If you are a successful
and independent woman stuck in lonely and are experiencing your accomplished
fabulousness hurting you love life I have liberating news. It is not ‘them’ and
it is not ‘you’ it is the ‘who’ that you have been dating that is the problem.
See we women have been brainwashed with the ‘romance novel inspired’
expectations of our ideal man and guilty of what Stephanie Coontz’s op-ed piece in the New York Times identifies as confusing “intimidation with infatuation”
when we fall in love.
Evan Marc Katz the Dating Coach for
Strong Successful Women states “I am
not arguing that women ought to “settle.” …But that requires ditching the Lois
Lane syndrome, where we ignore the attractions and attention of Clark Kent
because we’re so eager for the occasional fly-by from Superman.” And if you
are like most of your strong and independent sisters your perfect partner is
the taller, smarter, richer and more powerful variety. However, according to Coontz
“the most important predictor of marital happiness for a woman is not how much
she looks up to her husband but how sensitive he is to her emotional cues and
how willing he is to share housework and child-care. And those traits are
easier to find in a low-key guy than a powerhouse.”
So if you’re an intelligent
and successful woman how about ditching the ‘Lois Lane syndrome’ and shifting
the ‘who’ you date from the ‘Superman’ types and give the Clark Kent’s a chance.
While it is the ‘alpha male’ kind that gets our hormones racing causing our
bodies to blindside us with biologically inspired lust and confusing that with
true connection and love take charge of your romantic destiny and give the
Clark Kent’s a chance.
So in followed Evan
Marc Katz’s advice changed my ideal partner criteria and discovered a whole new
world of awesome, available and attentive men who I had been letting slip
through my fingers and began having the kinds of relationship experiences I had
always dreamed of. And yes, I found my Clark Kent.
The 3 Key Things to Do
When Dating a Clark Kent:
Be Open Minded. Get over being stuck on if he
is your ‘type’ because obviously your ‘type has not been delivering and give
him a chance.
Is he a gentleman, kind, attentive and
interesting? If he does NOT make your heart race at first that is a good sign.
You may be surprised to find what tiger may be lurking underneath.
So what if he doesn’t make more money than you. Does
he provide for your emotional needs and takes care of his responsibilities,
makes your body sing, makes you feel safe and puts a smile on your face? Then
he is perfect husband material.
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